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The miscommunication pays heavy in all the relationships we maintain, but the impact will be higher in love and family. Problems will multiply when you cannot express yourself in a way that your partner can catch or understand. In order to have the perfection in relationships you should be able to listen, understand, acknowledge, and apologize first.

Try to correct and connect yourself by saying your ignorance, means you apologize before the damage occurs, in such cases where you failed pay attention.

Try to understand or grasp what your partner is talking about, means you should get the sense in the communication. You have to know how it affects you. You also need to know how you can help them if they are talking about a problem.

Try to give chance and freedom to express their opinion, do not interrupt when others are talking and explaining. If you have something to say about the matter, wait until they pause or stop talking. Always wait for them to ask for your opinion and help.

Do respond to the communication from other end, means you have to acknowledge with interesting nods like sounding “ah”, ‘yes”, “Uh-huh”, “I see” or anything that is appropriate for the conversation. The continuity can be expected in others information and the reception end can also pay attention.

The important tip above all is, try to limit your temper even the mistake lies in others or in very clearly. Always think before leaving words, as the words and anger expressions can hurt others. Be calm and confident as if you can face and solve any kind of situation.

Love cannot be expressed all the time, but the destructive anger can be expressed spontaneously. Be constructive by having extreme patience and smiling face.

-Kannamsai