Talking or communication is essential at every place. This is applicable even about your sex to avoid a bad sex life. Talk to your man and say what turns you on. This will surely help in heating things up under the sheets. Do not shy to take initiative once in a while. At times, just indulging in an intimate sex could help you deal easily with an argument, taking off the emotional stress.

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Be open

Stop hiding things and share your fantasies. Saying nothing, but expecting your partner to know what he should do, is so stupid. Ensure you take out some quality time with your partner and do not get caught up with your daily routine. Be spontaneous and add spice to your sex life.

Mini Heaven

Remember that you do not feel to take off for a holiday if your bedroom looks like a mini heaven. Keep it lively and do not have stacks of unwashed laundry by your bed side. Even if you are not in mood, go ahead. According to research, the desire enhances with foreplay, while you would feel like being aroused.

Stop being conscious

Take some time out for massages, before you go under the sheets. After all the emphasis should be on feeling good. Do not obsess over your body. Don’t allow your unloved body parts rule your sex life. Finally, stop that conscious feeling about how you look and go for the deed.

- Sumana