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Relationship between you and your partner is one of equality. Both have to contribute equally – emotionally as well as financially. Your partner or boyfriend has to share the problems as well as the expenditure incurred together.
Any disbalance in the relationship is an indication that a break-up is imminent - sooner or later. Here are few signs to warn you if your partner is serious about the relationship or just using you.
You end up paying on dates
Whenever you go out together, it's you who pays the bill. Although your partner has no financial problem, he only pays the bill on rare occassions. Going dutch on a date is ok, but if he never pays the bill then it's not al-right. It tells of his non-seriousness and a sign that he is using you.
You also pay his personal bills
This is the greatest sign that your partner is using you. Not only do you pay the bills during dates, but you even pay his personal bills. If he is not capable of paying his own bills then it's better to walk out of this relationship. Anyway he is not serious about you, so it'll break sooner or later.
Wants to meet you only when he needs you
The only time he makes efforts to meet you is when he wants to meet you. And the reason being he needs you for some reason and not because he misses you. Maybe he needs your help (read monetary) or advise. Be warned of such men, just stay away from them. He's clearly using you. Get out of the relationship at once.
(AW: Pratima Tigga)