When in a relationship, you every so often put yourself in a situation thinking if your man is really committed to you or he is just trifling. Indeed, actions do speak a lot than words.
Here are 7 things men only do if they do not wish to commit and aren’t in it for the long haul.
He Doesn’t Want You to Meet His Friends or Family
When two people are in a committed relationship, they’re not just dating each other in fact they are also sharing their lives together, meaning sharing the people that are close to you.
It’s a typical step in any relationship to meet your significant other’s friends, and eventually, family. Those are the people who he thinks most highly of, and they’re the people whose opinions he most respects.
If he’s serious about you, he’s going to want you to meet his friends and family. If he keeps you away from his friends and family it’s a sign that he doesn’t really want the relationship to progress any further.
No Conversations about the Future
If he’s not comfortable talking about your future together or if he’s uncomfortable when you initiate a conversation about it and completely dismisses the topic, take that as his denial to commit.
You Don’t Feel Comfortable around Each Other
True relationships are all about intimacy. And intimacy can only grow when two people trust each other enough to be truly vulnerable around each other. If it doesn’t feel comfortable to be with him, or he doesn’t seem comfortable when he’s with you, that’s a huge obstacle to a deepening relationship and to intimacy forming between you.
If it’s not comfortable being together, it’s a sign that you might not be compatible with each other.
He Doesn’t Include You in His Decisions
As his lover, you get to be a part of the big decisions of his life since they will affect you as well. If he doesn’t involve you in his life decisions and rather only thinks about himself, take that as a warning sign that he’s just not that into you.
He Doesn’t Get Jealous
A guy who is afraid of losing you will get a little jealous, from time to time. The fear of being without you will beset him.
Your Gut Is Telling You He’s Not
Your instincts are always your guide in your love life. When your heart is screaming at you trying to get you to believe something, your gut is going to be a far better guide as to whether it’s true.
Take time to ask yourself whether you really believe he’s serious, and answer yourself honestly.
The immediate feeling in your gut will give you a better answer than hours of rationalizing or agonizing over it will.
You Constantly Feel Insecure
The one thing that your partner is supposed to do is make you feel loved and wanted. If he makes you feel insecure or like the relationship is not going anywhere, you need to take that feeling seriously.
By Sowmya Sangam
